

“I like this fabric,” he said, fingering it for a moment before pulling my top over my head: something I hadn’t experienced since age 6. When Selin does begin to have sex, she is so perceptive that the scenes are a wonder. When people hook up, she thinks, it often means new and more tedious people are suddenly around.Ībout sex, she asks, “Why couldn’t we be excited about something else?” She wonders why her happiness should have to “depend on my ability to find some doofus who would tell me I was special. One by one, Selin’s friends and roommates are picked off, romantically and sexually, and she hates it. The brain isn’t the only organ in this novel. What’s revealed to her, in a typically canny observation, is “the true face of all parties: how they were all, in one way or another, sadomasochism-themed.” She attends a glittering, sadomasochism-themed party for a literary magazine. At a Pilates class, the fights over mat placement are “deeply stressful, in a way that made me feel like I understood the primal conflicts for land that formed the basis of modern history.” She wonders if this is what the Palestinians and Israelis feel like. She does occasionally climb out of her own expensively educated head. The current arrangement - for everyone to sit there piously waiting for whenever their body happened to shut down - seemed so far from ideal.” Selin, word-drunk, wonders why books of poems are so expensive when they have so few words.
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She writes: “I wished there was a class where they could teach you how to calculate the right time to die. Departments at Harvard seem arbitrary to Selin, who wonders why there isn’t a department of love. This novel wins you over in a million micro-observations. She’s like the kid on the schoolyard who tries (and tries) to get on the spinning roundabout, but it’s going at murderous speed. But she’s never been kissed or asked on a date and, like the novelist she hopes to be, she overthinks everything. Edna O’Brien asked, “Why can’t life be lived at the pitch of books?” Selin wonders that, too. It’s novelistic to hurl yourself into life. She’s the sort of person who will avoid a deed that seems “anti-novelistic.” She’s caught between these poles of existence, and she’s obsessed with Kierkegaard’s book. What are the benefits and drawbacks of each? Are we screwed either way?īatuman’s narrator, Selin, is a sophomore at Harvard. It pits the aesthetic life, a life of books, art and sensual pleasure, against the ethical life, one of marriage and responsibility. Kierkegaard’s “Either/Or,” published in 1843, is a book about how to live. Batuman has a gift for making the universe seem, somehow, like the benevolent and witty literary seminar you wish it were. The title of her second novel, “Either/Or,” is on loan from Kierkegaard. $27.Įlif Batuman’s first two books, “The Possessed,” a memoir, and “The Idiot,” a novel, took their titles from Dostoyevsky. Whatever the weather or your mood for the day, you can take your pick and never go out of style.EITHER/OR By Elif Batuman 360 pages. Brands like Wild Fable, Original Use, Levi’s, Colsie, All in Motion, JoyLab and many more to choose from. Or pair a casual shirt with a long-sleeve Snap Front Faux Leather Varsity Jacket - Wild Fable for a cozy look that’s perfect for transitioning to cooler weather. Switch up summer clothing styles with a denim shorts or romper outfit for fashion-forward looks. From essentials to new arrivals, Target is the must-haves one-stop-shop if you want to keep looking & feeling your best. Great collection for giving as gifts for various occasions too. Soft cotton clothing in sweet prints & bright hues make it a win all around. All the cutouts, sets & dresses to take you from vacay to the dance floor and more. Look through one-piece swimwear, activewear, beachwear, athleisure and many more. Or, you can shop by category to find what you need.

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